Issue 4

December 2000

Welcome to emommieNews

Welcome mommies to the 4th edition of emommieNews.  I hope this newsletter finds all of you enjoying your holiday season.  I don't know about the rest of you, but aside from the snow, I love this time of year.  I love relaxing in front of the fire on a cold night.  I love shopping for my friends and family (especially my kids).  I love making hot chocolate for the girls, to warm them up when they get in from playing outside in the snow.  It truly is a time to be thankful for all the good things in our lives.  Another thing that I have to be thankful for are the friendships that I have made because of emommies.net.  This really is a very special group of moms.  Thanks to all of you who help make my day even brighter because of your friendship.  I hope your holiday season is filled with many wonderful experiences that will make the perfect memories.

If you would like more information on how you can contribute to emommieNews, e-mail me at Noelle@emommies.net

 

Feature Article
New Years Celebrations Around the World  by Rachel Webb

All around the world people celebrate the coming of a new year and time with traditions from their country. Although the celebrations are not always held on the same day, they often include traditions of religious celebrations, special prayers and blessings, beautiful costume parties and parades of celebration.  Not just a holiday of merriment many countries have customs of forgiveness, and practices said to bring good luck and fortune in the new year. 

Learning about the traditions practiced in other cultures is a fun way to gain respect and acceptance for others sometimes appear different then we are.  It is also a positive step to teaching children to be non-prejudice in a fun way as well. 

ECUADOR
In South America "Ano Viejo" is celebrated by creating a fake person or dummy. The scarecrow looking person will be completely dressed and stuffed with old newspapers and firecrackers. The dummy is usually placed outside the home. He represents something that happened during the last year. At midnight each family lights the dummy on fire. As the dummy goes up in smoke the firecrackers also go off to add to the festivities. The old year is forgotten and the new year begins.

Our family decided to use this idea in our own American celebrations. We found that we did not always have old clothing we wanted to burn so instead we burn our old Christmas tree at midnight!

IRANIAN "NO RUZ"
Lasting 13 days, "No Ruz" (pronounced no ROOZ) begins in March because spring begins in March. People plant miniature container gardens and receive new clothing to eat a special meal of eggs and pilaf. This meal is believed to bring them good luck. Friends go visiting and bring gifts of fruit, flowers and colored eggs. They gather together to watch for special things to happen at midnight. For example, the eggs are put on a mirror to see if they shake. The belief is that the New Year starts when the eggs begin to shake. People kiss each other and say "May you live for a hundred years". Iranians also study from the Koran, their holy book and worship God.

On the last day of the celebrations known as "Sizbah Bi Dar" people take picnics to the country where they throw the garden containers into a stream or water to signify throwing away their bad luck.

HINDU RELIGIOUS CELEBRATIONS
In India, the Hindus have a New Year celebration four times a year to welcome each of the four seasons. Diwali is one of the New Year festivals held at the beginning of autumn. They believe that the Hindu goddess of good luck visits homes that are brightly lit. Children make "dipas" which are small clay lamps to light and bring the good luck goddess to their home so they can receive new clothes and toys. One family may have many thousand of these little lights decorating their home.

The first day of Diwali is also a New Year of Business" all companies pay of debts and their cars are decorated with flowers and palm leaves to bless the vehicles to run well in the new year.

JEWISH NEW YEAR
The Jews have two New Year celebrations. One for the country and one for the Jewish New Year known as Rosh Hashanah which is usually held in September. It lasts one or two days beginning at sundown on one day and ending at sundown as well. People recite a blessing called "Kiddush" over wine and egg bread called "callah". The callah is shaped like a crown to symbolize that God is in heaven, it is also smooth to bring hope for a smooth new year.

Worshipping at the synagogue a ram's horn or "shofar" is blown to remind people to think about their past year of sins and pray for forgiveness. Rosh Hashanah is the beginning of 10 days of prayer and worship that leads into Yom Kippur where they worship god and pray to become better people in the new year.


VIETNAM (TET NGUYEN DAY)
Known as "Tet" for short, the Vietnam New Year also changes the date that it is celebrated. The Vietnamese people believe that they live with different gods in their homes that keep track of their deeds as well as protecting the family. Before Tet begins they give presents to their gods so that when they leave for heaven to give their report on the people the gods will look favorable upon them. They send off their gods with a fireworks display.

The celebrations last for 3 days in which time the Vietnamese people light candles to honor their deceased relatives which they believe return during Tet. Everyone must remain happy during Tet to ward off bad luck in the upcoming new year.

CHINESE NEW YEAR
The Chinese new year and the Vietnamese "Tet" traditions are very similar. In Chinese culture, Tsao-Chun is the name of their Kitchen God who also travels to heaven to report of their deeds. Homes are cleaned spotless and decorated appease the Kitchen God. On New Years Day gifts are exchanged and some homes make a "money tree" which is decorated with old coins and paper flowers. The third day of celebrations, the Lion Dance begins and continues until the fifth day. Men dress in lion costumes and dance in a parade. Dancers climb on top of each other to form a human ladder to reach "lucky money" that is tied in high places.

The Dragon Dance is also held on the third day of the New Year. Paper-mache dragon heads are made with long fabric bodies. It takes several men to maneuver the dragon through the streets. Families open their doors to let the dragon bring luck into their homes. The color red is a lucky color and can be found prominently throughout the celebrations. Firecrackers are thought to scare away the evil spirit Shan-sau so the celebrations are very noisy with people shouting and drums beating too.

The Chinese also believe believe that each year was named after one of twelve animals. Each animal has different habits, strengths and weaknesses. The year you were born tells you which animal you resemble according to Buddha.

GREECE
In Greece, St. Basil fills the children's shoes with presents at midnight.

DENMARK
It is a good sign to find your door heaped with a pile of broken dishes at New Years. Old dishes are saved year around to throw them at the homes where their friends live on New Years Eve. Many broken dishes were a symbol that you have many friends!

JAPANESE NEW YEAR
People in Japan spend weeks planning for their New Year celebrations. They buy special food and make decorations for their front door out of pine branches, bamboo and ropes that are believed to bring health and long life. Fan ropes are also hung over the doors and roofs with seaweed or ferns to bring them happiness and good luck. Children receive "otoshidamas" which are small gifts with money inside. They also send New Year cards to their friends and hold forgetting-year parties to say goodbye to the old year. They also forgive friends and family for any misunderstandings and disagreements they may have had that year so they can make a clean start of the new year. On December 31st bells are rung 108 times to chase away 108 troubles. They people all laugh after the gongs because laughter will drive away the bad spirits. With all the bad spirits gone and troubles and enemies forgiven, they enjoy a day of celebration.

GOOD LUCK TRADITIONS
As you can see many countries have traditions that they believe will bring good luck for the new year. In Puerto Rico children enjoy throwing pails of water out the window at midnight. Some believe that this rids their home of any evil spirits!

In Spain when the clock strikes midnight the people eat 12 grapes. One grape for every stroke of the clock to represent each month in the year. Each grape is said to bring good luck in the new year.  Switzerland believes good luck comes from letting a drop of cream land on the floor New Years Day. While in France people eat a stack of pancakes for luck and good health. Belgium farmers wish their animals a Happy New Year for blessings.  Armenian women cook a special bread for their family. The bread is kneaded with luck and good wishes pressed into the dough before it is cooked. In Northern Portugal children go caroling from home to home and are given treats and coins. They sing old songs or "Janeiro's" which is said to bring good luck.  Romanians had a tradition of listening to hear if the farm animals talked on New Years Day. If the animals talked it was considered bad luck so they are relived when they do not hear any talking animals. In Bolivia families make beautiful little wood or straw dolls to hang outside their homes to bring good luck.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:  Rachel Webb is a SAHM of 4 and designs decorative large Magnetic Fridge Calendars.  Her calendars are made entirely out of heavy duty magnet, guaranteed not to slide off when the kids slam the fridge door!  PERFECT Christmas  Gift Idea!  Visit her site: http://www.Note-Ables.com or e-mail: Rachel@Note-Ables.com

 

Attention: Recalls (Nov & Dec 2000)
Attention everyone!  This is a partial list of recalls and other press releases provided by the Consumer Product Safety Commission.  Please check out their website for more recalls.  I only included child/family related ones here.  You can find more at http://www.cpsc.gov
What's New @ emommies.net?
  •  Grandparent's Place ~ We have dedicated this section to all the grandmas and grandpas that make our lives easier by being there for us.  It's because of them that many of us are the great moms that we are.  In the Grandparent's Place, grandparent's will find information on dealing with today's kids, including a slang "dictionary" and great craft ideas from the "old days".  There is also a section for you to submit your stories of parenthood.  Us moms want to learn from the pros, not just the psychologists and doctors.

 

 
In This Issue
  • Welcome
  • New Years Around the World
  • Attention: Recalls
  • What's New?
  • Romance Tip
  • Humor
  • Craft Corner
  • Award Winner
  • Recipe
  • Our Kid's Behavior
  • Help!
  • Coming Attractions
  • Letters to the Editor
Romance Tip
To celebrate the holidays this year with your spouse, simply grab yourselves a hot cup of coco, a soft blanket, and plop down in front of the fire place (or heater if you don't have a fire place) and your decorated Christmas tree (WITH YOUR SPOUSE).  After you sit and snuggle each other close, start talking about the best Christmas memories you have and how this one is going to be even better.  It is important to focus your attention on your spouse, especially around the holidays when you have been soooooo busy shopping and stressing over who's house you need to go to on what day, and dealing with money issues.  Just set all of that aside for one evening and sit with your spouse and enjoy the holiday season and each others' company.

Do you have a romantic story to share?  How about a tip guaranteed to spice up your love life?  If so contact lashawna@viclink.com.  She'd love to hear from you.

For more emommieRomance, visit http://www.emommies.net/emommieRomance.htm

 

Humor

My sister was at her wit's end trying to stop my four-year-old nephew, Todd, from sucking his thumb. Finally, she told him if he didn't stop, his stomach would get very big and puffy.

The following Sunday in church, there happened to be a very pregnant lady sitting in the same pew. Todd kept staring at her. When the service was over, he pulled at her arm and whispered,

"Your stomach is big and puffy... I know what you've been doing!" by Becky Walker

For more humor, check out the humor page at http://www.emommies.net/humor.htm

 

Craft Corner
Christmas Ornaments

I found using the wheat flour kind of made the ornament look textured, Riley's looked really cute when it dried!  But regular all purpose flour works fine too.

2 c Flour
1/2 c Salt
about 3/4c to 1c water

Gradually add water to flour and salt mixture until it turns into dough (like pie or bread dough).  Knead, spread out onto floured area and roll out.  Use cookie cutters for younger kids, older kids can roll out and squish circles for teddy bears or snowmen.  Make a hole at the top using a drinking straw.  Bake at 250 degrees for 30 min to 1 hour.  WATCH CLOSELY so that they don't burn.  Take out and let cool.  Paint with water colors if you are worried about your kiddos eating the paint or ornament.  For more vibrant ornaments, use acrylic paints.  Remember to write your child's name and the year on the ornament!  Spray with a clear coating (available at most craft stores).  Top it off with a pretty ribbon.

Enjoy!

For more craft ideas, check out our Kids section at http://www.emommies.net/crafts.htm

If you have an original recipe you would like to have published, visit http://www.emommies.net/cooking.htm

 

Best Mom's Site Award

This month's Best Mom's Site Award goes to...Mom's Life.  This is a super organized site packed with tons of information for all types of moms.  Check out their message boards.  They are pretty cool.

http://www.momslife.com

To make a recommendation for one of your favorite sites, visit our award page at: http://www.emommies.net/emommieAwards.htm

 

Recipe

Jim's Home Made Chili (Noelle's DH)

It's not old fashioned, and I wouldn't even go so far as to call it original, but it seems to be popular with my friends and family.  Basically, I started with my Mom's recipe.  (How could I possibly go wrong with that?)  After sampling a bunch of other people's chili dishes, I tried to imitate a little of each of the ones that I liked the best.  It's still a work in progress, but here is the current version.

1 Medium Yellow Onion
Cooking Oil
3 Pounds Lean Ground Beef
1 46-ounce Bottle Campbell's Tomato Juice
2 40-ounce Cans Brooks Chili Hot Beans
1 Teaspoon Tabasco Sauce
1 Tablespoon Chili Powder
1 Tablespoon Dried Sweet Basil
1 Tablespoon Dried Oregano
1 Teaspoon Salt
1/2 Teaspoon Black Pepper
(Optional) 1 Teaspoon Cayenne Red Pepper

First, chop the onion and place in a large pot, with enough cooking oil to coat the bottom of the pot.  (I prefer to use Extra Virgin Olive Oil for this.)  Cook over medium-low heat (approximately 10 minutes) until the onion becomes soft and transparent, but not brown.

Add the ground beef and continue to cook over medium-low heat, draining as much grease as possible in the process.  When the beef is browned, add both cans of chili beans.  (Brooks Mild Chili Beans can be substituted here.)  Also, add enough of the tomato juice until the mixture has the desired consistency (or is a little bit thinner, as the chili will thicken somewhat while cooking.)  If you haven't noticed, I like a big pot of chili because I get more leftovers that way.

Add Tabasco Sauce, chili powder, basil, oregano, salt, and pepper, as well as Cayenne pepper if more spice is desired.  Bring to a boil, reduce heat, cover, and simmer for 1˝ to 2 hours.  Add more spices (Tabasco Sauce, chili powder, basil, Cayenne pepper) to taste.  I tend to check the flavor every 20-30 minutes, adding spices accordingly.  (In the end, I probably use a total of 2 tablespoons of chili powder, as well as additional Tabasco Sauce, basil, and Cayenne pepper, simply because I like it a little more spicy.)  For thicker chili, leave the lid partially open to allow steam to escape.

 

Our Kid's Behavior
Behavior Modification

Does your youngster constantly hit you or other people? Are you having problems stopping this type of negative behavior? Try a behavior modification method, such as helping your child make his/her own "positive behavior book." First, let your child select a pocket-sized notebook to decorate.  Explain to your child each time s/he exhibits a positive behavior, you will note it in her book. (You can place a sticker on the page as well.)

Begin by making a big deal about her positive behaviors. You might clap and say, "Yeeeaa!! Let's write a nice note in your book!" Don't write about any negative behaviors; ignore them if possible. Prior to bedtime, review all the wonderful things your child did by working the deeds into a bedtime story. After your child begins to change behavior, you can ease up on the journal.  

This method should work until your child decides it's too childish. Save the notebooks for keepsakes to share with them when they get older. They'll thoroughly enjoy rereading these notes!

- Cheryl G., MS, 
Licensed Professional Counselor

Help!
We are looking for people who would like to help with the emommies.net website.  There are many opportunities available, both small and large commitments. Specifically, we need help with the following:
  • We need recipes for the cookbook that we are hoping to publish soon.  The proceeds will go to The Make A Wish Foundation.  Submit your original recipe at http://www.emommies.net/cooking.htm.
  • Do you know of any dads out there who would like to help with the eDaddies section?  We really want to get this section up and running! 
  • Stories needed for our Kids Stories section.  Right now, we have only one story.  I would love to see tons of stories written by our emommies here.  Contact Noelle at Noelle@emommies.net if you are feeling creative.

 

Coming Attractions
  • Keep your eye out for our new theme party idea at Party Time in the Kids section.  The theme will be "A Colorful Birthday".  The theme party idea will include tips for games, dress, and decorations just to name a few.

 

Letters To The Editor

Do you have a question or comment for the emommies.net editor or founders?  If so, we'd love to hear from you.  Send your letters to editor@emommies.every1.net

 

Deadline for January Newsletter is January 1, 2001.
E-mail submissions to Noelle@emommies.net.

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