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Welcome mommies to
the 4th edition of emommieNews. I hope this newsletter finds
all of you enjoying your holiday season. I don't know about
the rest of you, but aside from the snow, I love this time of
year. I love relaxing in front of the fire on a cold
night. I love shopping for my friends and family (especially
my kids). I love making hot chocolate for the girls, to warm
them up when they get in from playing outside in the snow. It
truly is a time to be thankful for all the good things in our
lives. Another thing that I have to be thankful for are the
friendships that I have made because of emommies.net. This
really is a very special group of moms. Thanks to all of you
who help make my day even brighter because of your friendship.
I hope your holiday season is filled with many wonderful experiences
that will make the perfect memories.
If you would
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New
Years Celebrations Around the World by Rachel Webb
All around the world people
celebrate the coming of a new year and time with traditions from
their country. Although the celebrations are not always held on
the same day, they often include traditions of religious
celebrations, special prayers and blessings, beautiful costume
parties and parades of celebration. Not just a holiday of
merriment many countries have customs of forgiveness, and
practices said to bring good luck and fortune in the new year.
Learning about the traditions practiced in other
cultures is a fun way to gain respect and acceptance for others
sometimes appear different then we are. It is also a
positive step to teaching children to be non-prejudice in a fun
way as well.
ECUADOR
In South America "Ano Viejo" is celebrated by creating a
fake person or dummy. The scarecrow looking person will be
completely dressed and stuffed with old newspapers and
firecrackers. The dummy is usually placed outside the home. He
represents something that happened during the last year. At
midnight each family lights the dummy on fire. As the dummy goes
up in smoke the firecrackers also go off to add to the
festivities. The old year is forgotten and the new year begins.
Our family decided to use this idea in our own American
celebrations. We found that we did not always have old clothing we
wanted to burn so instead we burn our old Christmas tree at
midnight!
IRANIAN "NO RUZ"
Lasting 13 days, "No Ruz" (pronounced no ROOZ) begins in
March because spring begins in March. People plant miniature
container gardens and receive new clothing to eat a special meal
of eggs and pilaf. This meal is believed to bring them good luck.
Friends go visiting and bring gifts of fruit, flowers and colored
eggs. They gather together to watch for special things to happen
at midnight. For example, the eggs are put on a mirror to see if
they shake. The belief is that the New Year starts when the eggs
begin to shake. People kiss each other and say "May you live
for a hundred years". Iranians also study from the Koran,
their holy book and worship God.
On the last day of the celebrations known as "Sizbah Bi
Dar" people take picnics to the country where they throw the
garden containers into a stream or water to signify throwing away
their bad luck.
HINDU RELIGIOUS CELEBRATIONS
In India, the Hindus have a New Year celebration four times a year
to welcome each of the four seasons. Diwali is one of the New Year
festivals held at the beginning of autumn. They believe that the
Hindu goddess of good luck visits homes that are brightly lit.
Children make "dipas" which are small clay lamps to
light and bring the good luck goddess to their home so they can
receive new clothes and toys. One family may have many thousand of
these little lights decorating their home.
The first day of Diwali is also a New Year of Business" all
companies pay of debts and their cars are decorated with flowers
and palm leaves to bless the vehicles to run well in the new year.
JEWISH NEW YEAR
The Jews have two New Year celebrations. One for the country and
one for the Jewish New Year known as Rosh Hashanah which is
usually held in September. It lasts one or two days beginning at
sundown on one day and ending at sundown as well. People recite a
blessing called "Kiddush" over wine and egg bread called
"callah". The callah is shaped like a crown to symbolize
that God is in heaven, it is also smooth to bring hope for a
smooth new year.
Worshipping at the synagogue a ram's horn or "shofar" is
blown to remind people to think about their past year of sins and
pray for forgiveness. Rosh Hashanah is the beginning of 10 days of
prayer and worship that leads into Yom Kippur where they worship
god and pray to become better people in the new year.
VIETNAM (TET NGUYEN DAY)
Known as "Tet" for short, the Vietnam New Year also
changes the date that it is celebrated. The Vietnamese people
believe that they live with different gods in their homes that
keep track of their deeds as well as protecting the family. Before
Tet begins they give presents to their gods so that when they
leave for heaven to give their report on the people the gods will
look favorable upon them. They send off their gods with a
fireworks display.
The celebrations last for 3 days in which time the Vietnamese
people light candles to honor their deceased relatives which they
believe return during Tet. Everyone must remain happy during Tet
to ward off bad luck in the upcoming new year.
CHINESE NEW YEAR
The Chinese new year and the Vietnamese "Tet" traditions
are very similar. In Chinese culture, Tsao-Chun is the name of
their Kitchen God who also travels to heaven to report of their
deeds. Homes are cleaned spotless and decorated appease the
Kitchen God. On New Years Day gifts are exchanged and some homes
make a "money tree" which is decorated with old coins
and paper flowers. The third day of celebrations, the Lion Dance
begins and continues until the fifth day. Men dress in lion
costumes and dance in a parade. Dancers climb on top of each other
to form a human ladder to reach "lucky money" that is
tied in high places.
The Dragon Dance is also held on the third day of the New Year.
Paper-mache dragon heads are made with long fabric bodies. It
takes several men to maneuver the dragon through the streets.
Families open their doors to let the dragon bring luck into their
homes. The color red is a lucky color and can be found prominently
throughout the celebrations. Firecrackers are thought to scare
away the evil spirit Shan-sau so the celebrations are very noisy
with people shouting and drums beating too.
The Chinese also believe believe that each year was named after
one of twelve animals. Each animal has different habits, strengths
and weaknesses. The year you were born tells you which animal you
resemble according to Buddha.
GREECE
In Greece, St. Basil fills the children's shoes with presents at
midnight.
DENMARK
It is a good sign to find your door heaped with a pile of broken
dishes at New Years. Old dishes are saved year around to throw
them at the homes where their friends live on New Years Eve. Many
broken dishes were a symbol that you have many friends!
JAPANESE NEW YEAR
People in Japan spend weeks planning for their New Year
celebrations. They buy special food and make decorations for their
front door out of pine branches, bamboo and ropes that are
believed to bring health and long life. Fan ropes are also hung
over the doors and roofs with seaweed or ferns to bring them
happiness and good luck. Children receive "otoshidamas"
which are small gifts with money inside. They also send New Year
cards to their friends and hold forgetting-year parties to say
goodbye to the old year. They also forgive friends and family for
any misunderstandings and disagreements they may have had that
year so they can make a clean start of the new year. On December
31st bells are rung 108 times to chase away 108 troubles. They
people all laugh after the gongs because laughter will drive away
the bad spirits. With all the bad spirits gone and troubles and
enemies forgiven, they enjoy a day of celebration.
GOOD LUCK TRADITIONS
As you can see many countries have traditions that they believe
will bring good luck for the new year. In Puerto Rico children
enjoy throwing pails of water out the window at midnight. Some
believe that this rids their home of any evil spirits!
In Spain when the clock strikes midnight the people eat 12 grapes.
One grape for every stroke of the clock to represent each month in
the year. Each grape is said to bring good luck in the new year.
Switzerland believes good luck comes from letting a drop of cream
land on the floor New Years Day. While in France people eat a
stack of pancakes for luck and good health. Belgium farmers wish
their animals a Happy New Year for blessings. Armenian women
cook a special bread for their family. The bread is kneaded with
luck and good wishes pressed into the dough before it is cooked.
In Northern Portugal children go caroling from home to home and
are given treats and coins. They sing old songs or
"Janeiro's" which is said to bring good luck.
Romanians had a tradition of listening to hear if the farm animals
talked on New Years Day. If the animals talked it was considered
bad luck so they are relived when they do not hear any talking
animals. In Bolivia families make beautiful little wood or straw
dolls to hang outside their homes to bring good luck.
ABOUT THE
AUTHOR: Rachel Webb is a SAHM of 4 and designs decorative
large Magnetic Fridge Calendars. Her calendars are made entirely
out of heavy duty magnet, guaranteed not to slide off when the
kids slam the fridge door! PERFECT Christmas Gift Idea!
Visit her site: http://www.Note-Ables.com
or e-mail: Rachel@Note-Ables.com
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everyone! This is a partial list of recalls and
other press releases provided by the Consumer Product Safety Commission. Please
check out their website for more recalls. I only included
child/family related ones here. You can find more at http://www.cpsc.gov.
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- Grandparent's Place ~ We have dedicated
this section to all the grandmas and grandpas that make our
lives easier by being there for us. It's because of them
that many of us are the great moms that we are. In the
Grandparent's Place, grandparent's will find information on
dealing with today's kids, including a slang
"dictionary" and great craft ideas from the "old
days". There is also a section for you to submit
your stories of parenthood. Us moms want to learn from the
pros, not just the psychologists and doctors.
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- Welcome
- New Years Around the World
- Attention: Recalls
- What's New?
- Romance Tip
- Humor
- Craft Corner
- Award Winner
- Recipe
- Our Kid's Behavior
- Help!
- Coming Attractions
- Letters to the Editor
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| Romance
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To celebrate the holidays this year with your spouse, simply grab
yourselves a hot cup of coco, a soft blanket, and plop down in front
of the fire place (or heater if you don't have a fire place) and
your decorated Christmas tree (WITH YOUR SPOUSE). After you
sit and snuggle each other close, start talking about the best
Christmas memories you have and how this one is going to be even
better. It is important to focus your attention on your spouse,
especially around the holidays when you have been soooooo busy
shopping and stressing over who's house you need to go to on what
day, and dealing with money issues. Just set all of that aside
for one evening and sit with your spouse and enjoy the holiday
season and each others' company.
Do you have a romantic story to share? How about a tip guaranteed
to spice up your love life? If so contact lashawna@viclink.com.
She'd love to hear from you.
For more emommieRomance, visit http://www.emommies.net/emommieRomance.htm
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My sister was at her wit's end trying to stop my
four-year-old nephew, Todd, from sucking his thumb. Finally, she
told him if he didn't stop, his stomach would get very big and
puffy.
The following Sunday in church, there happened to be
a very pregnant lady sitting in the same pew. Todd kept staring at
her. When the service was over, he pulled at her arm and whispered,
"Your stomach is big and puffy... I know
what you've been doing!" by Becky Walker
For more humor, check out the humor page at http://www.emommies.net/humor.htm
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Christmas Ornaments
I
found using the wheat flour kind of made the ornament look textured,
Riley's looked really cute when it dried! But regular all
purpose flour works fine too.
2
c Flour
1/2 c Salt
about 3/4c to 1c water
Gradually add water to flour and salt mixture until it turns
into dough (like pie or bread dough). Knead, spread out onto
floured area and roll out. Use cookie cutters for younger
kids, older kids can roll out and squish circles for teddy bears or
snowmen. Make a hole at the top using a drinking straw.
Bake at 250 degrees for 30 min to 1 hour. WATCH CLOSELY so
that they don't burn. Take out and let cool. Paint with
water colors if you are worried about your kiddos eating the paint
or ornament. For more vibrant ornaments, use acrylic
paints. Remember to write your child's name and the year on
the ornament! Spray with a clear coating (available at most
craft stores). Top it off with a pretty ribbon.
Enjoy!
For more craft ideas, check out our Kids section at http://www.emommies.net/crafts.htm
If you have an original recipe you would like to have published,
visit http://www.emommies.net/cooking.htm
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| Best
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This month's Best Mom's Site Award goes to...Mom's
Life. This is a super organized site packed with tons of
information for all types of moms. Check out their message
boards. They are pretty cool.
http://www.momslife.com
To make a recommendation
for one of your favorite sites, visit our award page at: http://www.emommies.net/emommieAwards.htm
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| Recipe |
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Jim's Home Made Chili (Noelle's DH)
It's not old fashioned, and I wouldn't
even go so far as to call it original, but it seems to be popular with my
friends and family. Basically, I started with my Mom's recipe.
(How could I possibly go wrong with that?) After sampling a bunch of
other people's chili dishes, I tried to imitate a little of each of the
ones that I liked the best. It's still a work in progress, but here
is the current version.
1 Medium Yellow Onion
Cooking Oil
3 Pounds Lean Ground Beef
1 46-ounce Bottle Campbell's Tomato Juice
2 40-ounce Cans Brooks Chili Hot Beans
1 Teaspoon Tabasco Sauce
1 Tablespoon Chili Powder
1 Tablespoon Dried Sweet Basil
1 Tablespoon Dried Oregano
1 Teaspoon Salt
1/2 Teaspoon Black Pepper
(Optional) 1 Teaspoon Cayenne Red Pepper
First, chop the onion and place in a
large pot, with enough cooking oil to coat the bottom of the pot. (I
prefer to use Extra Virgin Olive Oil for this.) Cook over medium-low
heat (approximately 10 minutes) until the onion becomes soft and transparent, but
not brown.
Add the ground beef and continue to cook over
medium-low heat, draining as much grease as possible in the process.
When the beef is browned, add both cans of chili beans. (Brooks Mild
Chili Beans can be substituted here.) Also, add enough of the tomato
juice until the mixture has the desired consistency (or is a little bit
thinner, as the chili will thicken somewhat while cooking.) If you
haven't noticed, I like a big pot of chili because I get more leftovers
that way.
Add Tabasco Sauce, chili powder, basil, oregano,
salt, and pepper, as well as Cayenne pepper if more spice is
desired. Bring to a boil, reduce heat, cover, and simmer for 1˝ to 2
hours. Add more spices (Tabasco Sauce, chili powder, basil, Cayenne
pepper) to taste. I tend to check the flavor every 20-30 minutes,
adding spices accordingly. (In the end, I probably use a total of 2
tablespoons of chili powder, as well as additional Tabasco Sauce, basil,
and Cayenne pepper, simply because I like it a little more spicy.)
For thicker chili, leave the lid partially open to allow steam to escape.
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Behavior Modification
Does your youngster constantly hit you or other people? Are you
having problems stopping this type of negative behavior? Try a
behavior modification method, such as helping your child make
his/her own "positive behavior book." First, let your
child select a pocket-sized notebook to decorate. Explain
to your child each time s/he exhibits a positive behavior, you
will note it in her book. (You can place a sticker on the page
as well.)
Begin by making a big deal about her positive
behaviors. You might clap and say, "Yeeeaa!! Let's write a
nice note in your book!" Don't write about any negative
behaviors; ignore them if possible. Prior to bedtime, review all
the wonderful things your child did by working the deeds into a
bedtime story. After your child begins to change behavior, you
can ease up on the journal.
This method should work until your child
decides it's too childish. Save the notebooks for keepsakes to
share with them when they get older. They'll thoroughly enjoy
rereading these notes!
- Cheryl G., MS,
Licensed Professional Counselor
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We are looking for
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There are many opportunities available, both small and large
commitments. Specifically, we need help with the following:
- We need recipes for the cookbook that we are hoping to publish
soon. The proceeds will go to The Make A Wish
Foundation. Submit your original recipe at http://www.emommies.net/cooking.htm.
- Do you know of any dads out there who would like to help with
the eDaddies section? We really want to get this section
up and running!
- Stories needed for our Kids Stories
section. Right now, we have only one story. I would
love to see tons of stories written by our emommies here.
Contact Noelle at Noelle@emommies.net
if you are feeling creative.
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- Keep your eye out for our new theme party
idea at Party Time in the Kids section. The theme will be
"A Colorful Birthday". The theme party idea will
include tips for games, dress, and decorations just to name a
few.
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